Sex is Sex is Sex.

I told you it would be controversial.....haha
For many of you this is like preaching to the choir. But even the choir needs a little teaching too. Here in Utah for some reason, this does not seem to click well with the people. I dont know....maybe its the water?? But Sex is Sex is Sex. No matter what way it happens, no matter who it is with or what you do, its still sex. I dont think I need to go into detail, because Im sure we all can think of things that this entails. I just want to make sure I am thinking correctly, because if Im totally wrong.......Man Ive got a lot of living still to do. Sex is sex is sex no matter if its oral, vaginal, masturbatory or any other forms. It still is in the same category. They all go hand in hand. (metaphorically of course). If you are LDS, then you know that its not the best or recommended before marriage. Being in a relationship sealed by marriage it is what is taught and prepared for each individual in our church. I am definitely not saying that I am high above the standard or that I have always lived a perfect lifestyle, but I can say that I know that sex is sex is sex. I understand the consequences of my actions and I understand how I can fix those particular mistakes that I have made.
I think my biggest peeve would be that many individuals try to justify themselves for what sexual actions they make. They justify what they have done in order to.... make themselves feel better??? Whatever the case, I believe they are just lying to themselves. I notice here in Utah that seems to happen a lot. Maybe because we are in the largest LDS community around, it just happens. Why arent we owning up to it? Im not telling people to go confess your sins to everyone, but do not try to justify your sexual actions with a "slip" or a "moment of weakness" that you can say a quick prayer and be done with. Thats just not how it works. Because you will probably do it again and again.
Just admit that sex is sex is sex. Thats all. I can. Its pretty easy.
What do you think?
In the end, again I will say I am far from perfect. I do a lot of things wrong, and will take the heat for any injustice that I have caused. But I will never agree to there being levels of sex. One sexual action is just as bad as another. There cant be higher ones than another, they dont have rankings, no status changes. Sex is sex is sex.